There are so many friends that come and go in our life, some of them help us, teach us to be a better one, and cheer us when we're sad.. But, did we already become a good friend to others?
Every person that live in this world, actually need best friends in their live, no matter how great he is, or how famous he is, or how success he is. Some people calls their best friends as their brother or sister from another mother.. ^_^
As a best friend, we have to help our friend to be a better person through all the things that they've been through in their live. We have to see for the situation too before helping them. When they're facing the problems, I don't give them a solution to it's problem first, I will listen to them and let them cry, angry, or let all their emotions out first. Cause, when people are facing problem, they'll blame actually, right? Let them calm first, at least you've heard their story, and keep the solution in your head, and when you think the time is right, you can give the solution. After that, maybe you can give them a hug ? Cause I think hug can give a great power to make people strong.
Become a good friend is not only about how you help them when they're having some problems. Sometimes, you have to be the glue for that friendship can stand still. Give them a little time, if there is a "study" time, why you can't give them "spy" time? Just to check what they're doing, joking around, tell some stupid stories, etc.
As a best friend, we have to help our friend to be a better person through all the things that they've been through in their live. We have to see for the situation too before helping them. When they're facing the problems, I don't give them a solution to it's problem first, I will listen to them and let them cry, angry, or let all their emotions out first. Cause, when people are facing problem, they'll blame actually, right? Let them calm first, at least you've heard their story, and keep the solution in your head, and when you think the time is right, you can give the solution. After that, maybe you can give them a hug ? Cause I think hug can give a great power to make people strong.
Become a good friend is not only about how you help them when they're having some problems. Sometimes, you have to be the glue for that friendship can stand still. Give them a little time, if there is a "study" time, why you can't give them "spy" time? Just to check what they're doing, joking around, tell some stupid stories, etc.
That some of little things, that can brings you a very great friend for the others, because "Small things doesn't mean a thing, but it means EVERYTHING"
"You DON'T turn your back on family, even when they DO" - Dominic Toretto (Fast & Furious 6) -
-YC-
i'm not sure if u got lot of friends, but you seems not
BalasHapuseveryone have their own way to be friends with the other.. :)
BalasHapusBut in fact, i still have some friends to be counted on..
and they still always beside me when i need them.. :)